Overview
The media pays a lot of attention to “deadbeat parents.” Yet not every parent who does not pay child support is withholding those court-ordered payments out of spite or neglect. Often, parents fail to pay child support because they cannot afford the premiums. For instance, the following email was sent by a mom who is unable to pay child support payments on time and isn’t sure where to turn. Unfortunately, this mom’s situation is not uncommon. Angela writes: “I am a parent who pays child support for one child. I also have three other children at home to support and one in college. Because I live out of state, the court decided the maximum for me to pay and did not consider my other children. I am currently disabled and have no income. Meanwhile, child support payments are still due, even while I am not able to work. How do I make it with little or no finances?”
Options if You Can’t Pay
In cases like Angela’s, there is a valid underlying reason—her disability and inability to work—which calls for the re-examination of the child support order. If you are in a similar situation, the first step is to contact the Child Support Office in the state where the child support order was issued. What you’ll need to do is file a formal motion requesting a modification due to changed circumstances. The amount of child support you owe was originally determined using your income and financial assets and obligations based on reports provided at that time. However, circumstances do change. In fact, this can happen many times over the years that you are paying child support.
What Are Changed Circumstances?
Either parent can request a modification due to changed circumstances. Examples of circumstances which may necessitate a change in the child support order include:
Additional costs associated with raising the child as he or she grows Changes in income Medical expenses Unemployment
Why a Court Order Is Important
For your own protection, it is crucial to have the child support order formally modified by the court. Avoid entering into a non-binding oral agreement with your child’s other parent. If there is a future dispute over the amount of money that is owed, any informal agreement may not be recognized as valid or binding by the court (in fact, it is likely that this agreement won’t be recognized).
