This is often called informed consent. It should be automatic, but oftentimes women say yes to something and they aren’t sure of why it’s being done or any other information. When the discussion involves surgery, like a cesarean section (c-section), you need to pay particularly close attention because it will impact your baby’s health, future fertility, and your health.
If You’re in Labor
You’ve been in labor a few hours. A cesarean is suggested: You need to ask:
Are you or your baby in immediate distress? Are there signs of fetal distress? If yes, what are they? (Heart rate changes, meconium, etc.) Is there an option other than a cesarean? Can you delay the decision about a cesarean?
If Your Doctor Wants to Schedule a C-Section
Your baby is thought to weigh a lot. Your doctor suggests a cesarean: You need to ask:
Why do they believe your baby to be large? How accurate is this measurement? Why would a cesarean be better for your baby than vaginal birth? Are there other alternatives? What are the benefits of waiting until labor begins?