An advantage to setting a loose deadline for weekly chores (such as wiping down the porch furniture before Friday at 6 P.M.) is that your teen can feel more freedom as to when the chore is done and will learn a different type of responsibility. If he does it Thursday, then Friday afternoon he can get the weekend off to an early start with his friends. If you’re at work in the afternoon when your teen arrives home, you’ve got a perfect opportunity to delegate specific chores with a set deadline. Your child can start dinner or organize the house for you in the afternoon, at her leisure—so long as it’s done before you get home. Leave a checklist for each afternoon, detailing what dinner is planned and what must be done ahead of time. As schedules change, you’ll need to conduct a chore review so that family members still have an assignment they can maintain with their new schedule.
